As an “outsider” (a.k.a one who doesn’t have graves), I feel an urge to
place this post on the BB. This being my first time attending the
conference, I was not sure what to expect. I had some preconceived
notions of going to meetings, sitting and listening to guest lecturers
yak at you for an hour and a half about whatever, then listen to people
relay their stories about their battle. It would be alright but not
enough to knock your socks off.
Four years ago I had a simular experience attending my wifes family
reunion. Not knowing what to expect..I went. Her relatives welcomed me
with open arms and treated me like I had been one of the family for
years.
This conference is not unlike the reunion. The people my wife and I met
treated us like we had known each other for years. As Friday turned
into Saturday then Sunday, the “conference” seemed to take on more of a
“reunion” atmosphere. By time Sunday afternoon arrived we weren’t
saying goodbye to friends and acquaintences but promises made to a
“family” to reunite once again next year.
For those of you, who may have just been diagnosed with Graves or if you
(or your significant other) have some apprehension to attend a
conference about a disease. I urge you to show them this post and
invite you all to try and attend next years “reunion”.
One of the most important things I learned about this weekend is that
even though I don’t have graves, I’m still affected by the disease and
with the help and support of my “new” family, everything will turn out
all right.
My thanks go out to Nancy, Bonnie, Peggy, Pat and all the support group
leaders who gave of themselves endlessly.
Mark Penlington
(Hubby to LynnthePB)
