Gal,
Sounds like you got back-doored, as we call it! No really, this sounds like a real problem living in a small, remote area. Any way you could move? Frustration is in your words and I’m not sure if Jake or I can help other than to offer to listen to your venting(we never mind listening!). The only option I see here is for you to travel and get the plugs put in! Maybe think of having the permanent kind implanted this time!
Wish I could do more! I am praying for you that your situation will improve!
Grandfather’s Blessings and a hug,
JAN