Since you didn’t bother to put your e-mail in, I have not any other choice to answer you but here. I am so sorry that you feel the way you do. We don’t really bash people here. If you really read alll posts from beginning to end, then you would know that a lot of what is what you call “Bashing” came during someone’s worst times with Graves’. If you have Graves’ or live with someone with Graves’ then I would think you would have the compassion to understand what a hell this disease is. There are times and emotions that are totally uncontrollable. There are other times on here where the only compassion and understanding some of us have found is this BB. It is your right and opinion to think that we bash people here, but if you truly read everything, then you would have also read the wealth of compassion and humor and prayer that is transferred here, much more than any of the bad things.
I wish you well in your life and hope you find what you are looking for.
Val