Dear Claudia,
Of course you can talk and get support from us. We are people who understand more than most. My dad was a twin, and when he died, his twin sister who he had not seen in years, knew. The bond is fierce, and you must not deny your rage and tears. The slippers sound like a great gift from the heart, and the love in the crosses that you exchanged is sweet. I remember the Christmas 16 years ago when I lost my Father in Law to cancer: we spent Chritmas eve together, and as sick as he was, he sat up and we celebrated his life together. Send your sister the love from the people you know on this bulletin board, I talk too much, but I speak for myself in sending love to both of you. And I know if I say it out loud, there are more than a few lurkers who also send you love. I agree, wrap your tears in with the package, and also remember with her your lives. Love, Karen