I am so glad you posted this experience. This will help so many people. I too have not been intimate with my husband. Just so tired and that’s the last thing on my mind. More recently my husband has been so effectionate and caring, where as before I would just push away. I know what you’re going through. You gave some great advise. Just wanted to thank you. I also printed out the information from this site and asked my family memebers to read it. Since then I think they have been more understanding. Hope things get better for you, contintue to reassure him that you love him and if you were well, things would be different. God be with you, Krist