I think they don’t get it. The complaints and problems that are “real”we all know about and sympathize with.The sweats,pains mental anguish,ups,downs,the arghhhhs,we know and understand. It’s the hangnail type stuff we’re talking about. I think Debby Jass,ever the vioce of reason put it just right(for me)Ditto Debby on everything you said.