ok, I feel like I need to say one more thing to you. You remarked that you get irritated at “positive thinkers” cuz it’s just thoughts, and in doesn’t change anything. I find that to be a rather superior attitude. To turn something into to a positive experience (an action) there has to be a conscious thought first, which is where I think “positive thinking” comes in. Yes, maybe some people will get hung up with the thought and not take it any further, but maybe eventually they’ll become less passive. I guess what I’m suggesting is that it’s a step and that’s something. All that said, let me tell you I’m really enjoying this conversation!!!Good night everybody! Trish