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Kim I do not know a single person that believes me and if they do they are not willing to do anything about it. Monday I will call an attorney that was recommended to me by an attorney who refused to represent me who was recommended by another attorney that refused to represent me. And to be honest am I am worried if I am getting some crap attorney that takes on any case. And lets say I am able to subpoena my Wife’s medical records. Now I need to find a doctor willing to look at her lab tests and see what, my wife is suffering from Graves’ disease and it is not being treated properly if at all? And no matter how you slice it I failed my family.

[No_Hope]

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Oh Rae please do not cry. I just want to help you with what you are going through. And there is no space I can give. My wife is divorcing me and in Kentucky we are in a no fault state. I am powerless to stop her. Yesterday in court I offered to sign divorce papers that would be held and filed at a later date if my wife would allow me access to her medical records, her doctor, and if she went to a mental health professional. This offer was turned down. Now my Wife is a good Christian and I presented her and her attorney a piece of paper that while in court I said that if she got it signed by one of these men, the Pasteur at her current church, the Pasteur from our previous church, or the Christian Counselor she is seeing I would sign divorce papers. Her attorney quickly responded with “we are not interested”. This is what that piece of paper said.

I,_________________ agree with Jennifer ***** that 1 Thessalonians 5:22

____ KJV Abstain from all appearance of evil.
or
____ NIV reject every kind of evil.

allows for her to forsake and abandon her husband if in her opinion he is an evil man.

My Wife used scripture for forsaking and abandoning me and I cannot even get one of those men to tell her that she is mistaken in it’s meaning.

My wife thinks the most HORRIBLE untrue things about me. It got so bad I started audio recording EVERYTHING. I have an audio recording of my wife saying that I called her crazy and insane 10 times when anyone can hear that I never said it a single time.

Rae I am not trying to steal your thread so please let me know if anyone from your family and friends would like to speak with me so that I can share my experiences with them.

Jack

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in reply to: Help, desperately please if anyone can.. #1176468

Rae, I am so sorry for your problems. I would love to speak with your boyfriend, his family, and anyone else who you think would benefit from my experience being married to the most beautiful spectacular Christian woman in the world who lives with untreated Graves’ Disease. Perhaps you could benefit from my hell on earth.

I would start off by telling him how lucky he was that you have been diagnosed, properly treated, and on your way back to being the woman that he loves for I am not so lucky.

My wife who is currently 40 was diagnosed with Graves’ disease before we met but he has never been properly treated nor has she ever seen an endocrinologist that I am aware of.

I was married in October of 2008 and within months I was asking her to tell her doctor of her increased mood swings and irritability. By 2010 I had no idea where the woman I married had gone and she had me removed from the home. Since she had me removed from the home we have tried many times to work on things but it was impossible due to the psychiatric impact Graves’ disease had on her. Unfortunately it is only within the last few months that I have realized that my Wife’s Graves’ disease is the source of our problems but it is far too late.

I will not go into the things that my wife has said and done that there is no way on God’s green earth she would ever do if she was herself. But I will tell you where we are right now. My wife has a second order of protection against me and thinks that I am an evil, psychotic, abusive man who is going to hurt her and her children all while she is divorcing me and has everyone close to her believing these untrue things.

Things got so bad that I threatened to kill myself if she would not go to counseling with me (and keep in mind this was before I found her problems were due to Graves’ disease) and then I ended up in a mental health facility. I made these threats because I was desperate to get my Wife help and I did not know what to do. My wife says and does the most irrational and illogical things and I cannot get her in front of someone so she can be scrutinized. If a mental health or medical professional were to hear the things my wife says, does, and thinks they would be able to help her.

And on top of all this I am discriminated against in court because I am from NY and all of this is taking place in a small county in Kentucky. And this is what an attorney that I tried to retain told me today after refusing to take me on as a client. And this attorney like others who I have tried to retain, every friend I know, every doctor and mental health professional I have spoken to all tell me the same thing, that I should just give up and walk away. And my response is that what my wife is going through is no different than cancer or if she was left disabled or worse due to an accident, and I cannot abandon my wife for ANY REASON. Even as she tries to put me in jail because I leave her voicemails and send her text messages telling her how much I love her and that she is my hero while she is doing things that she would NEVER do had she been herself. I am not allowed any contact with my wife nor can I be within 500’ of her. I have court next week where I could go to jail for these things and I am going to tell the judge that there is nothing he could do to hurt me compared to what I am living with.

My life is hell on earth. My most Beautiful Spectacular Wife truly believes the most horrible untrue things about me because she is sick and I am unable to help her.

So Rae you tell your boyfriend to read this and how lucky I said he is because he still has a woman that loves him.

My name is Jack and my email address is [edited to remove personal e-mail] if you or anyone else thinks they can benefit from my experience PLEASE do get a hold of me. I will do ANYTHING I can do to help others whose lives are affected by Graves’ disease.

Oh one last thing. The last time my wife got mad at me (and to this day I do not even know what she got mad at me for) she took my house key off of my key ring while I was sleeping and had me removed from our lease. From there she refused to communicate with me in any way. And this is when I made the threats of suicide.

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