Dear Everyone,
I haven’t been on the board in quite a while. I just read the last month’s worth of messages. It is good to see lots of different things being talked about, and answered. Every time I saw something that I thought I should respond to…there was the answer in just about the next post. You are ALL doing a GREAT JOB!
I will share one thing: At the time when my eyes were the worst, and I had just this angry stare all the time, I said “I love you” to my husband, He informed me that I didn’t LOOK like I loved him…and that was very true. We began “scheduling” our talks for the dark in the bedroom, and the arguing factor went down considerably.
Another thing: Don’t they always ask us if we have hd our labwork done lately?! Our agreement was that if I hadn’t had it done, it woldbe done, and IF it was normal we would return to the “discussion”. You can bet I wrote it on the calendar every time, and not even once did I get to finish that discussion (read: argument).
Any more tidbits for survival?
I just mailed letters to eight possible speakers–including 2 pediatricians, fertility specialist, strabismus surgeon. If any of you have suggestions for qwuestions to have anyone address, please mail them to me at “nancyngdf@bellsouth.net”. Make the subject line read “Conference Questions”
