Having graves disease we all go through a roller coaster of
emotional reactions and feelings. I think it is very important
to share with you some of the ways YOU, YOUR family and
relatives can help. You may feel helpless but
there are a few things
YOU can do:
BE THERE FOR THEM
You do not have to have all the medical or theological answers
about their situation. A simple hug, a reassuring touch and a listening
ear can be a most efficient therapy.
BE CALM
Remember, you are there for them. They may be looing for you
to be a source of strength and emotional security. Try to have
a soothing and calming effect on them.
BE PRESENT AT CRISIS TIMES
Be there for them at the beginning of major treatment processes (RAI or surgery)
or after devastating test results. Just your presence can be
a welcome source of encouragement.
OFFER A SENSE OF HUMOR AND CONTACT WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD
Laughter can be among the best medicines when used appropriately.
Graves patients need a good joke or funny story once in
a while!
HELP THEM EVALUATE AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF AVAILABLE RESOURCES
There are many support groups and agencies that provide
beneficial services to graves patients. Organizations such as the Nationa Graves disease
foundation and Thyroid Foundation of America offer excellent resources for the
patient, family and friends.
ALLOW THEM TO EXPRESS THEIR EMOTIONS
Let them cry when they need to. try not to be judgmental when
they express anger or are depressed. Again, learn to listen!
DON’T FORGET THE SIMPLE THINGS
SIMPLY ASKING WHAT CAN I DO FOR YOU TO HELP YOU OUT
MAY INSPIRE SOME STRESS OR RELIEF!
“It has been said that a friend in need is a friend indeed!
(Show this handout and advice to family, friends and
significant others!)
Love, Health and Happiness!
Dee
