thanks so much! I know I have read your posts before about spouses and them causing us more grief than ever.
And yes, you are right. He is pushing me to get the mamogram/pap done before the end of the year but doesnt realize that I am so sick some days, I can barely make it to go to the mall or clean my house. I try not to get overwhelmed by the house but it’s getting to the point where I need to deep clean all of it. Just dont have the energy anymore. I try to do things but zonk out.
Going to Cleveland from where I live is 4 and one half hours. It is gruelling to stay in the car that long. It actually makes me sick.
And then putting up with the people at the hotel, the railroad tracks that are always making noise and the train that goes by all night long. My night sweats are worse because I really can’t regulate the temp in the room, we eat junk, because there is no place to go and Cleveland Clinic is in a bad neighborhood which also makes me nervous.
some of the people that work there are great, others are rude and have no respect for sick patients. I find them cold and unfeeling. Last time I had to complain to the head of security. The Clinic is about 12 blocks long. Try walking that in cold weather. sighs………:o