Can certainly identify with your problem. Was taken off all medication on August 1 to see what my true condition was. Had a scan in Sept. Thyroid levels were still up but had reduced some. But between Aug and Sept. I went through severe hand tremors, heat intolerance, nervousness, anxiety and over-emotionalism. By mid-October I was feeling much better. Last test showed my thyroid levels are normal. Those symptoms have gone away and the endo says I’m in remission. So, the point of this long rambling message, is that it might be worth it to be off medication, there could be an adjustment period and you might go into remission. Good luck!
P.S. You are lucky you have an understanding boy friend.