Know what you mean about being self concious. All the women used to look at me and now I’d rather hide. (age may have something to do with it now too!! )
Have you been to Dianne’s page yet? I forget the URL but it is somewhere on the board here (Dianne, put it on again please). Feel free to laugh at our eyes on her page! Better yet, get a picture of your eyes, scan it and send it to Dianne ( firstname.lastname@example.org )
After a couple of years my eyes have gotten much better. The little problems that are left, surgery can pretty much take care of.
I’m full of Graves’ eye info, just ask.