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    Hi Jeff,

    I think others have dealt with how you might be able to help your wife better than I can, but I’d like to add a little something about counseling. Just like physicians, counselors come in all shapes and sizes. Some you’ll like, and some you won’t. It’s important to find one that will work for you and your wife. If you don’t like the one you’ll see in three weeks – find another one!! And finally – don’t expect a quick fix. It takes time to rebuild a relationship, especially when one spouse is sick. Counseling is hard work and requires a lot of listening and honesty but it can work wonders if you’re willing to make a commitment to it.

    Best of luck to you both,