Hello – Most of our forum members here are patients, but we do have parents post here occasionally. I also know of a Facebook support group for parents; it’s not an official group of the Graves’ Disease and Thyroid Foundation (nor is it monitoried by the GDATF), but includes many family members who have come together to share their personal experiences. http://www.facebook.com/groups/265484340175004/. It’s a closed group, but you can request to join, and the organizers will send you a brief questionnaire to confirm that you are a Graves’ parent.
You might also be interested in visiting the GDATF’s YouTube channel, as we have presentations from Dr. Michael Gottschalk and Dr. Scott Rivkees on Graves’ and children:
http://www.youtube.com/user/GravesAndThyroid
Wishing you and your family all the best as you make this difficult decision!